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Gastric Bypass: Thinking Small 

Malia was morbidly obese for most of her life. Tipping the scales at 350 lbs., something had to give. Would the Roux-En-Y gastric bypass surgery be the answer? This is her story... Watch

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Surgery on Your Stomach Won't Fix a Problem in Your Head

Bariatric surgery has catapulted us into a Brave New World. These days many eating disorder therapists are seeing a new type of client: the pre- or post-bariatric surgery patient. While we may not be schooled in the gastrointestinal and hormonal intricacies of obesity surgery, we are knowledgeable about the complex interplay of emotions, relationships, trauma and food. Unfortunately, bariatric surgeons may have only had one class (that’s class, not course) on eating disorders in medical school.

Many in the eating disorder community are adamantly opposed to this surgery. They view with suspicion physicians who are quick to promote the procedure as the Holy Grail of weight loss rather than viewing it as a last resort. And while insurance companies may insist on six months of pre-operative nutritional counseling, they do not insist on (and often balk at paying for) pre-operative psychotherapy.

It’s hard for me to take a hard-line stand on the surgery itself. I know people who’ve destroyed their health, developed eating disorders and alcoholism, gained back all the lost weight and even died following gastric bypass surgery. I also know people who’ve lost weight and kept it off, and whose quality of life has improved 1000 percent following surgery. They have no regrets and tout it as a life-saving operation.

Get Thee to a Therapist!

I met a bariatric surgeon who’d conducted his own extensive pre-surgery assessments of his patients. He was shocked to find that 80 percent of his patients who were about to undergo surgery reported being sexually abused as children.

I wasn’t shocked at all. It’s widely accepted in the psychology community that sexual abuse survivors often develop problems with overeating. An abuse survivor may use food to numb her feelings or punish herself. She may try to make herself less attractive by gaining weight. Over the years, eating can become a default way of coping with negative emotions, while being overweight becomes self-defining.

Now imagine this woman gets gastric bypass surgery to “fix” her weight problem, without stepping a foot in a therapist’s office. Post-surgery she may be ill-equipped to cope with negative feelings since her default mechanism has been taken away. As her body changes and men start noticing, she may be unprepared for the sense of anxiety that she cannot identify or manage.

This is the patient who may turn to alcohol, cigarettes or shopping for emotional anesthesia. Or she may just eat her way around that tiny stomach pouch. Once I met a woman who lost and then gained back 250 pounds post-surgery.

More tragically, ERs have a short-hand for the post-surgery patient who’s binged and burst through the tiny stomach-pouch. “GBGB.” Gastric Bypass Gone Bad. GBGB can be deadly.

“Those who do not learn from history are bound to repeat it.”

Doesn’t it make sense that a person who is 100 pounds overweight should address his or her “food issues” before getting gastric bypass? Here’s a story to illustrate the work that needs to happen between your ears before someone opens your gut.

Brad is a bright, vivacious and extremely likable guy. A successful man in a long-term relationship, when he arrived for pre-surgery psychotherapy he weighed 386 pounds. Here are just a few of the themes that we addressed during our year together.

Early family messages

When we explored why Brad had ignored his health, he stated that he believed he was not worth the effort. So we dug deeper.

Brad was adopted. He never felt like he “belonged” to his parents. His mother was obsessed with her own fitness but rarely cooked or cared for her son. Brad always sensed that his mother felt burdened by his needs. Brad’s father was a harsh disciplinarian. A controlling military man, he’d measure the hangers in Brad’s closet to be sure they were one-inch apart. Sharing these stories helped Brad realize that his parents did not love him in the way that he needed to be loved. This insight was accompanied by deep sadness. This “grief work” helped him let go of his old self-perception. Acknowledging that their treatment of him was more about their short-comings than his value as a son, he recognized that he was worthy of the effort it took to take care of himself.


Brad had internalized his father’s perfectionism along with an equally powerful rebelliousness. If you’re surprised to think of someone weighing over 380 pounds as a perfectionist, here’s how it works: If I can’t be Perfect, why bother?

Perfectionism and Complacency are flip sides of the same coin.

In therapy Brad recognized that his harsh self-talk not only didn’t make him a better person, it actually contributed to his weight gain. Brad recalled a high school gym teacher who had believed in him and pushed him to get fit. With her encouragement, he started to feel good about his body. Realizing that her positive approach had helped him get in shape years ago, he started speaking to himself in kinder tones, rather than listening to – and rebelling against – his internalized father.

Dina Zeckhausen is a nationally-known clinical psychologist and author who specializes in treating eating disorders and body image in both adults and adolescents. She is a weekly columnist for ShareWiK.com. You can visit her on the web at dinazeckhausen.com and MyEdin.org.

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